The Polarity of Life

Contrasts are a thing of life. It seems very few people realize that I mean even in the most ugly place or situation you can find something beautiful, and even in some place or something many people would call paradise you can be sad or not feel the vibe if you know what I mean. Life is all about contrasts, do you look at it with the glass half full or the glass half empty. A real life example of this is there is this beautiful park Named Island Park in Ann Arbor Michigan. Now as I walked through this beautiful park along Huron river everything seemed perfect the sun was out it was a nice day, very scenic everyone was having a good time, yet there was this one person who was sitting on a bench crying with an expression on his face like he had lost all hope.
So even in a perfect situation there can be people that just don't feel it. That is the polarity of life, the sad truth is if you are having serious issues there is nowhere you can go to escape it, no drug you can take to escape it, the only way to heal is through love and kindness and for someone else to be understanding. Meditation helps as well http://www.angelfire.com/empire/serpentis666/Aware.html but if you never find anyone in this life that understands you you can never be fully happy.
Another example is the ghetto when it comes to places like that most people feel down and turn to drugs and/or alcohol to numb their pain, they try so desperately to fit in, to play "da game" and to conform but are they really happy. Experience tells me not in one instance has a person been happy. I have seen often these people die at an early age, feel hopeless, feel stuck, the drugs only provide a temporary out but once they are hooked the drug becomes the problem, another thing they are constantly seeking. I mean do you really want to be that person crying in the bathroom of a crackhouse saying where is my fucking cocaine and heroine, talking about killing yourself if you don't find it and sounding completely hopeless. Extreme example I know but I did see this one time.
Money isn't everything you don't need it to be happy, you don't need to be a slave to the corporations, be conformist, work 9-5 or live like everyone else, or live in a nice house, or have expensive this or that to be happy either. Actually reality as most people see it is just a product of a dysfunctional mind and a dysfunctional life. If being normal is what you seek ask yourself what the fuck is normal, many people have different definitions and on a wide scale it varies from culture to culture, and country to country. Think outside the box and know yourself learn to be creative, strong and brave, yet kind and sensitive and understanding. That is a hard step but its what this world needs this world doesn't have to be cold its people that make it that way. If it wasn't for all the lies and us being cut off from ourselves we could all be living in peace and harmony without money, or any of the other distractions of modern society.
What will bring true freedom and happiness is to look at your life and see beauty in the smallest things, take some time to notice the little things, appreciate what you do have, learn to really be and know your true self and don't go by what people around you expect you to be. Meditate and empower and heal your soul, get to know our true gods, they love us and take care of their followers, the thing is we were the ones that came up with the idea of worshiping them, in reality they are just like us, living beings on another planet far away, just immortal and lightyears more advanced than we are, spiritually and technologically,  they want to teach us, they were the ones that gave us the breath of life, they also want to be our friends. Also learn to notice things around you more, still your mind, if something is bothering you don't suppress it but think carefully about what a solution could be and not in a manner that the others expect you to be like either, think for yourself, learn to truly know your self and look to better yourself but still be happy with what you have, don't buy into materialism or superficial things, be deep, meaningful, authentic and in touch with your emotions.
Peace Love and Freedom